response

It’s easy to focus only on the other, while we relate to someone hurting or hurting us.  But underlying opportunities are constantly presented by the circumstances we find ourselves in.  When we stop to listen to what we are saying, and observe what we are doing to someone we love or anyone at that, we are truly either fulfilling our needs through them, or are nurturing them in us.  Perhaps if we see each other as mirrors of something familiar,…